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Visiting the House of Sinn

Friday, 15 September 2023 16:07
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Ezada Sinn and Mistress AynIt’s taken a while for Me to get My “kink legs” under Me since relocating to Romania, but it’s finally happened.  I am fortunate enough to have one of the top online Dommes in the world down the road in Bucharest – The Matriarch Ezada Sinn.  Ezada and I met back in April at her FemDom Summit and we made plans to collaborate.  Well, it’s finally happened in a big way.  Last week I spent a couple of days with The Matriarch in her element – The House of Sinn.

The House of Sinn project has been a vision of Mistress Ezada’s as she seeks to build a community of like minded Women and give them the venue to meet, collaborate, socialize and of course, create content.  I am very excited to be a part of this revolutionary concept and I plan to return on a regular basis.

I made a short video describing my stay at the House of Sinn and you can find it here:

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In addition to socializing, we managed to squeeze in some filming and the first clip is out!  Watch Ezada and I dish out the punishment and heavy humiliation to a remiss slave that failed to prepare My bathroom correctly.  Ezada and I bonded over this clip with shared laughter.

You can find it here:  The slave becomes the garbage can.

Support the House of Sinn by purchasing clips here:  House of Sinn

 

Interview with Simone Justice on the ethics of BDSM public play

Monday, 10 January 2022 18:17
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Just before Dom Con New Orleans in 2019, Simone Justice asked if She could interview Me regarding My thoughts on public play.  She was preparing to lead a DomCon Parade down Bourbon Street and the topic of public play, consent and ethics came up.  I don’t think this interview was ever published so I thought I would post it here.

SJ: What is your opinion as to the limits of public play?

MA: I love public play, but it means different things to different people. Some people think the simple act of wearing a visible collar is public play. Others don’t consider play to be public unless it’s more of a scene. It’s important to understand the limits of the person you are playing with in each situation. My only real limit to what I will do in public has to do with the respect of people that could view the play. I don’t like to involve people that haven’t consented and might find what I do with a submissive offensive.

SM: What do you do with your own clients in public?

MA: I have done all kinds of discreet and indiscreet public play. I’ve had shoe fetishists put shoes on me in a shoe store. I’ve taken sissies to have bra fittings at lingerie stores, mani/pedis, in store makeover, etc. I’ve wired subs up with electro or remote plugs and stimulated them in public with no one the wiser. I’ve also done full blown scenes in kink friendly venues.

SJ: What would you never do in public with a client?

MA: I would never do anything that was offensive to on lookers. I’ve outgrown the need for shock value. If I am going to do something with a sub that might offend a shop employee, I call ahead first and clue them in. It’s amazing how often people are good sports and will play into your scene if you just give them the respect of letting them know what is going on. Anything done in front of children that would require an explanation from parents is definitely off limits.

SJ:  How did you develop your rules of what you will do in public?

MA:  Experience. It just evolved over time. I’ve learned the most from listening to my subs and what their concerns are and I understand that everyone’s limits are different.

SJ: Have your limits changed over the years?

MA: Absolutely. I used to have little regard for the “vanillas”. When I was less mature as Domme I found it fun to shock the public. Now I just see it as disrespectful to those not a part of the scene and disrespectful to the concept of BDSM in general.

SJ: Anything else you would like to say about The Ethics of Public Play?

MA: There are tons of opportunities to play in public if you handle it correctly. Consider your surroundings and act accordingly. A venue like Bourbon Street is very different from the neighborhood mall on Saturday. For many subs it is about the idea that things are happening to them in public whether anyone else is aware of it or not. Don’t push the envelope so far that you end up giving BDSM a bad name. BDSM is about consent. Everyone’s consent. Not just you and your play partner.

 

A 48 hour weekend at FemDom Mansion

Saturday, 17 April 2021 23:58
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We managed to pull off another safe yet fantastic weekend at FemDom Mansion in Atlanta.  The guest list was shorter than usual but the event was long on FemDom fun.  It also provided some great opportunities for My slaveboy’s continued training on his 8th visit.

As a special “surprise” we had Goddess B fly in from DC.  When she arrived on Saturday, slaveboy was completely shocked.  He had been trying to guess what the surprise would be and when he saw her walk in, the look on his face was priceless.  All the ladies had a much needed weekend of pampering and fun.  It was definitely a win win weekend.

As is tradition, slaveboy has written his top 15 experiences (upped from 13) and they have been posted on the FemDom Mansion site.

See the full review on Domina.ms/reviews or the write up and photo gallery at FemDom Mansion.

 

 

 

Trials and Tribulations of a chastity slave – Installment #18

Monday, 28 October 2019 21:20
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FemDom MansionInstallment #18 – My Personal Slave Training Progress in Review

While most of my chaste slave training with Mistress Ayn is via emails, there were four very special weekends at the FemDom Mansion in the past 18 months.  There i subjected to Mistress Ayn, and other Mistresses and Goddesses of Her choosing, to advance my personal slave training.  At the end of each weekend, i knelt before the Mistresses and Goddesses who took charge of my training weekend and humbly requested that They sign my “personal slave training Certificate of Achievement.”

On the flight home i begin to reflect on my slave training experiences at the hands of these beautiful and talented Mistresses and Goddesses and construct a “Top 13” list of the most memorable or meaningful experiences that have advanced my personal slave training. Recently i reviewed my “Top 13” lists and discovered some patterns reflecting my progress as Mistress Ayn’s personal chaste slave.

  • Humiliation – in the basement dungeon as i was ordered to experience a gangbang, spitroasting, or sucking dildoes; or during the cocktail party where i am typically in full-drag feminization and sitting on the spiked tray, spanked, performing a burlesque dance, or displayed with saline-filled balls; or during the day as i am “waterboarded Goddess-style” (an outdoor showers with garden hose); or feminized (often looking “ridiculous”) for serving dinner;
  • Physical pain – markings from a whip or cane or flogger; electricity attached to inserted sounds; sitting on a spiked tray; multiple piercings with needles; and generally prohibited from using a safe word;
  • Feminization – in full drag for a burlesque dance, Halloween costume as Mistress Ayn’s mini-me, or as a cocktail waitress; or partially feminized as a maidservant for meals;
  • Anal play – birthday gangbang; strap-on sucking and pegging; spitroasted while on display in the dungeon; and,
  • Markings – from a rattan cane or whip or flogger; redness from a spanking; bearing Mistress Ayn’s and Goddess Samantha’s initials.

The level of humiliation, physical pain, feminization, anal play, and markings are all “former hard limits,” with the emphasis on “former” as i have advanced as a slave due to my training.  Not only have i accepted them as part of my new life as Mistress Ayn’s personal chaste slave due to Her expert training, but i am craving these experiences each time i submit to Her and Others for more training.  They seem to please Mistress Ayn and that is my ultimate goal. They have become a part of my life as Her slaveboy and i hope i can endure / embrace even more as my personal slave training progresses – but that is, as always, at Mistress Ayn’s discretion.

Trials and Tribulations of a chastity slave – Installment #17

Sunday, 06 October 2019 18:55
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Installment #17 – Mistress Ayn “Pushes” Me – by slaveboy

Reflecting on months as Mistress Ayn’s chaste slaveboy, there are many things i have experienced that i have desired, often in moderation: chastity, bondage and discipline, servitude, tease and denial, and more.  Yet, Mistress Ayn also knows how to “push” my limits for the things i desire and to introduce me to things i dislike or at least thought i did not want.

i enjoy chastity and Mistress Ayn being my Keyholder … but … She “pushes” me as i have been controlled and restricted from freely touching, masturbating or orgasming for eight months … with no end in sight.  Mistress Ayn loves introducing me to “indefinite chastity.”  There is more.  At my last weekend at the FemDom Mansion, i was secured to the bondage bench expecting some discipline – for my birthday … what i received were eight strikes with a rattan cane. OMG, that was intense and, again, my limit for pain tolerance was “pushed,” never beyond what i could take but much more than what i thought i could handle.

As the FemDom Mansion Houseboy, i was “pushed” into many things i thought i would dislike and did not asked for, if that was an option: sissification, public humiliation, gangbang as a birthday gift, no whining or sassing, and more.  Mistresses at the Mansion now joke about many of my “hard limits.”  For instance, i was taken to a public shopping mall by a Mistress and a Goddess and ordered to walk around with Them. W/we shopped for sissy bling for me and sexy outfits for them.  i was ordered to carry my Goddess’ purse – “pushing” me beyond what i thought i wanted.  At the Mansion, Mistress Ayn created a display board to record the times i sassed a Mistress during the weekend and punishments were doled out based on this recorded number – a number much higher than i thought i could possibly take.  This “pushed” me to think about what i was about to say and be more respectful at all times of Mistresses.  i was subjected to much more as will be reported in Mistress Ayn’s blog and Twitter.

The closing thought – regardless of whether i ask for something or not, Mistress Ayn knows how to train me to accept whatever She desires for me to experience and to enhance my training as a submissive slaveboy.  i am so appreciative of this opportunity to serve in this way.

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