{"id":705,"date":"2016-10-19T16:51:08","date_gmt":"2016-10-19T20:51:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/?p=705"},"modified":"2016-10-17T17:17:53","modified_gmt":"2016-10-17T21:17:53","slug":"ruined-orgasms","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/ruined-orgasms\/","title":{"rendered":"Ruined Orgasms"},"content":{"rendered":"

I’ve been a bit fascinated with ruined orgasms lately. Probably because I have been seeing two long term chastity slaves. Neither of them are able to be successfully milked, so I suggested to their key holders that ruined orgasms might be a viable option.<\/p>\n

On a recent visit one of the subs confided in Me that as much as he enjoys getting his release when his wife eventually allows it, he then struggles with a diminishment of his sissy submissiveness – which he loves and strives for daily. I know that she occasionally gives him a ruined orgasm, so I asked him if he felt the same way when the orgasm was ruined. His initial response was that he did NOT feel a diminishment in submission – or at least not as much of one, but wants to monitor this and report back to Me. Of course, I have asked his wife to only allow ruined orgasms for a while, so I can get read on this.<\/p>\n

Recently I read something about female ruined orgasms (yes, we can have them) and it was stated that we don’t get the same rush of dopamine with a ruined orgasm, so we don’t feel as satisfied and will often seek to immediately have another. I am guessing it is the same for the male physiology. I have noticed in longer sessions that after a ruined orgasm, the sub can usually recover and orgasm again relatively quickly.<\/p>\n

Primary ways to ruin an orgasm:<\/p>\n