{"id":703,"date":"2016-09-20T19:17:42","date_gmt":"2016-09-20T23:17:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/?p=703"},"modified":"2026-02-23T12:17:25","modified_gmt":"2026-02-23T17:17:25","slug":"all-those-pesky-acronyms-and-abbreviations-in-bdsm","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/all-those-pesky-acronyms-and-abbreviations-in-bdsm\/","title":{"rendered":"All those pesky acronyms and abbreviations in BDSM"},"content":{"rendered":"
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For some reason kinksters love their acronyms. \u00a0Maybe it’s the need to be discrete in front of others or maybe it’s the geek in us wanting to have a secret lingo that only the “in crowd” understands. \u00a0Whatever the reason it can get cumbersome at times. \u00a0I remember a Domme texting Me once asking what NT meant. \u00a0A sub had listed his kinks in acronyms and she was drawing a blank on that one. \u00a0When I replied, “nipple torture”, she did the proverbial face palm. \u00a0Of course she knew what NT meant, but with all these to remember (plus subs occasionally make up their own) it can be difficult to recall them sometimes.<\/p>\n

Recently on Twitter I announced that I was about to see a particular sub and listed the day’s menu in hashtag acronyms. \u00a0When he arrived at the dungeon he said he had been worrying all day what #SOT meant. \u00a0I pulled out My strap on and he got it – in more ways than one.<\/p>\n

Below is a list some of the most common abbreviations used in Female Domination:<\/p>\n

AB – Adult Baby
\nATM – Ass to Mouth
\nBBW – Big Beautiful Woman
\nBDSM – Bondage & Discipline (BD) Dominance & submission (Ds) Sadism & Masochism (SM)
\nCBB – Cock and Ball Bondage
\nCBT – Cock and Ball Torture
\nCD – Crossdresser
\nCFNM – Clothed Female, Naked Male
\nCP – Corporal Punishment
\nCuck – Cuckold
\nD\/s – Dominant\/submissive
\nFEMDOM – Female Domination
\nFT or FTT – Full Toilet or Full Toilet Training
\nGS – Golden Shower
\nNT – Nipple Torture
\nOTK – Over The Knee
\nRACK – Risk Aware Consensual Kink
\nSPH – Small Penis Humiliation
\nSOT – Strap On Training
\nSOW – Strap On Worship
\nSSC – Safe Sane Consensual
\nTPE – Total Power Exchange
\nTS – Trans Sexual
\nWS – Water Sports<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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