{"id":54,"date":"2012-03-19T00:52:24","date_gmt":"2012-03-19T00:52:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/?p=54"},"modified":"2015-05-22T00:57:32","modified_gmt":"2015-05-22T00:57:32","slug":"faq-8-what-is-cuckolding-fantasy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/faq-8-what-is-cuckolding-fantasy\/","title":{"rendered":"FAQ #8 \u2013 What is cuckolding fantasy?"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"Mistress<\/a>you may have seen Cuckolding listed as one of My interests and not fully known what it meant.\u00a0 Well, here you go . . .<\/p>\n

Traditionally cuckold has been a derogatory term for a man with an adulterous wife.\u00a0 Today the term cuck and cuckolding take on new life in the fetish community.\u00a0 Cuckolding fetish is a consensual act that involves the female half of a couple taking a lover with the knowledge of her partner.\u00a0 In a symbiotic way, all parties derive sexual pleasure from the experience.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s look at the players:\u00a0 The female, sometimes called the Hotwife or Cuckoldress, is physically attractive and in theory can attract any lover she chooses.\u00a0 She may be sexually insatiable.\u00a0 The chosen lover (aka the bull) often exhibits physical traits that are used to intimidate the cuck (the male that is being \u201ccheated on\u201d).\u00a0 For instance, the bull usually has a much larger cock.\u00a0 He may also be in better physical shape and\/or younger than the cuck.\u00a0 Conversely the bull is usually depicted as being from a lower socio-economic background, have a lesser job (i.e. the pool boy) and in general have a lower social standing than the cuck.\u00a0 This often adds to the cuck\u2019s humiliation.\u00a0 In addition, the cuck and the Cuckoldress may get off on her objectifying the bull.<\/p>\n

Is this a turn on?\u00a0 For many people, YES.\u00a0 Why cuckolding is becoming so popular in modern culture is stirring lots of debate \u2013 but for Me the appeal is quite simple.\u00a0 As a Dominatrix I see cuckolding as just another form of masochism.\u00a0 It is also the perfect venue for the Female Dominant to exercise Her control over Her two males at the same time.<\/p>\n

In session, I use cuckolding fantasy to mentally mindfuck a willing submissive.\u00a0 I may tell him how inadequate he is as a lover and that I can only be satisfied by a much larger cock.\u00a0 I need to be touched in places he can\u2019t go.\u00a0 I may tell him I need a lover that can last for hours and keep up with My voracious sexual appetite \u2013 which, as an inferior male, \u00a0he obviously can\u2019t.\u00a0 I may also tell the submissive that he will be required to prepare Me for My lover, \u201cfluff\u201d My lover and clean up both of us after the act.\u00a0 \u00a0Mmmm, I get excited just writing about it.\u00a0 Now where did I leave My bull? . . .<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

you may have seen Cuckolding listed as one of My interests and not fully known what it meant.\u00a0 Well, here you go . . . Traditionally cuckold has been a derogatory term for a man with an adulterous wife.\u00a0 Today the term cuck and cuckolding take on new life in the fetish community.\u00a0 Cuckolding fetish […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[23],"tags":[26,24],"class_list":["post-54","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-faq","tag-cuckold","tag-faq"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/54","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=54"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"http:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/54\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":57,"href":"http:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/54\/revisions\/57"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=54"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=54"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=54"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}