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Collaring a submissive is something I have always been resistant to, for several reasons.\u00a0 I am a believer in long term relationships and I take commitment very seriously.\u00a0 The act of collaring, to Me, is not a whim.\u00a0 On the contrary it is much like a marriage.\u00a0 I become responsible for the sub and everything the sub does is now a reflection on Me.\u00a0 That’s heavy stuff.<\/p>\n
The pandemic has been difficult in many ways but it has made Me reevaluate the things that are important to Me.\u00a0 When times are difficult you learn who you can really depend on\u00a0 and it became clear to Me that I have some spectacular subs.\u00a0 Among those a few really stand out because of their long time exclusive devotion, the things they do to go the extra mile, their dependability, special skills or a combination of all of the above.\u00a0 But mainly I realized there were a few subs that I knew I could really depend on.\u00a0 If I were stranded in another state or hurt on the side of the road, they would move heaven and earth to rescue Me.\u00a0 They would be family.<\/p>\n
Because of this I decided to collar 3 additional subs this year and all three are now members of My kinky family.\u00a0 Prior to this I had only the one collared sub, aka slave jaime, Ayn’s slaveboy.\u00a0 It was a touchy subject to inform slaveboy he now had “brothers” but he accepted the news well.\u00a0 I have encouraged My collared subs to get to know each other and I think that has only strengthened their bond.<\/p>\n
The subs:<\/p>\n
joe – My joe has served Me over a decade.\u00a0 He has been the rock I needed during the rehabbing of two Dungeons.\u00a0 He is the guy you call when a crisis occurs and he is always there ready to help.\u00a0\u00a0 In reality I should have collared joe years ago, so although he is not My first collared sub, I do consider him the alpha sub.<\/p>\n
Ayn’s pet aka paddles – My pet has also served Me for at least a decade.\u00a0 He has been loyal and fun but more recently he has become even more.\u00a0 He is the one that volunteers sweat labor when he sees something needing done.\u00a0 He has made Dungeon furniture, cleaned carpets, done yard work, filmed, you name it.\u00a0 \u00a0He has never refused a thing I asked.<\/p>\n
Ayn’s toy – My toy was an easy decision but for different reasons.\u00a0 During the pandemic he offered his support in important ways.\u00a0 I could tell anytime he was able to help, he felt fulfilled by it in a way beyond how a typical person might feel.\u00a0 \u00a0It’s as if service completes him and I don’t know if I have ever met a soul quite like him.\u00a0 He wormed his way into My heart in a comparatively short period of time, but I think he is here to stay.<\/p>\n
These men have made a vow to serve and honor Me and I made a vow to protect and support them and be worthy of their service.\u00a0 I hope we continue to make each other proud.\u00a0 Yes, that is some heavy stuff.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Collaring a submissive is something I have always been resistant to, for several reasons.\u00a0 I am a believer in long term relationships and I take commitment very seriously.\u00a0 The act of collaring, to Me, is not a whim.\u00a0 On the contrary it is much like a marriage.\u00a0 I become responsible for the sub and everything […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[21],"tags":[40,15],"class_list":["post-2430","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-miscellaneous-musings","tag-slave-training","tag-slaves"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2430","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2430"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"http:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2430\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2437,"href":"http:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2430\/revisions\/2437"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2430"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2430"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2430"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}