{"id":1854,"date":"2019-08-28T11:55:49","date_gmt":"2019-08-28T15:55:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/?p=1854"},"modified":"2019-08-28T11:55:49","modified_gmt":"2019-08-28T15:55:49","slug":"tribute-etiquette","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/tribute-etiquette\/","title":{"rendered":"Tribute Etiquette"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"How to present your tribute:<\/p>\n

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  1. Have it ready – counting out your tribute in front of Me is uncouth. Whether intended or not, I see it as a passive aggressive move to remind Me that you are paying and therefore in control. It’s not the best way to start your session.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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    1. Have it in a plain, unsealed envelope. Even if you have been seeing Me for years, I may count the tribute in private before we start.\u00a0 Especially if it’s a double or the tribute deviates from our norm.\u00a0 I prefer not to have to rip the envelope open to do this check.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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      1. Don’t write anything on the envelope. I would prefer not to have a bunch of envelopes with “Mistress Ayn” floating around out there – either in your pocket or the trash.\u00a0 We all know who it is for.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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        1. Just lay it down within eyesight upon entry. Don’t hand it to Me.\u00a0 Most of Us were taught not to touch the tribute.\u00a0 It’s a legal thing and I don’t know if it\u00a0 holds water or not, but I have always done it this way and it just feels better to Me.\u00a0 Somehow it’s less transactional and starts everything off right.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

          I can’t speak for all Dommes but this is how I like to receive My tribute.\u00a0 If in doubt, ask.\u00a0 It is your first live interaction with a Mistress, so get it right and start things off positively.<\/p>\n

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