{"id":152,"date":"2015-01-15T00:55:07","date_gmt":"2015-01-15T05:55:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/?p=152"},"modified":"2015-07-20T17:05:55","modified_gmt":"2015-07-20T21:05:55","slug":"faq-17-how-is-humiliation-used-in-a-bdsm-or-ds-session","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/faq-17-how-is-humiliation-used-in-a-bdsm-or-ds-session\/","title":{"rendered":"FAQ #18 \u2013 How is humiliation used in a BDSM or D\/s session?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/ag13asmallxs.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright  wp-image-153\" src=\"http:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/ag13asmallxs-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Mistress Ayn &amp; Switch Gianna\" width=\"393\" height=\"590\" srcset=\"http:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/ag13asmallxs-683x1024.jpg 683w, http:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/ag13asmallxs-200x300.jpg 200w, http:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/ag13asmallxs.jpg 1106w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 393px) 100vw, 393px\" \/><\/a>First of all, there is a big difference in erotic humiliation and ordinary humiliation. In BDSM we use erotic humiliation to press a subs buttons and the end effect is to make them feel naughty and aroused. Calling someone, fat, stupid, old, etc, is usually not part of erotic humiliation and won\u2019t elicit the desired effect.<\/p>\n<p>Each person is unique and I recommend that humiliation be used gingerly with a new play partner. One person\u2019s turn on is another\u2019s turn off and humiliation scenes, like all other scenes should be well negotiated. Some men are very turned on when a Female Dominant pronounces their penis too small for proper sex with a woman \u2013 and their little peckers get rock hard at the idea of being evaluated and judged in this way. For others, it\u2019s a buzz kill, so it\u2019s important to know what turns your sub on and what areas are off limits.<\/p>\n<p>Examples of humiliation used in Domme\/sub sessions are:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Verbal humiliation \u2013 name calling, beratement, racial slurs, mockery, etc.<\/li>\n<li>Forced feminization \u2013 as simple as being made to wear panties to full female transformations<\/li>\n<li>Animal play \u2013 forced to wear a leash, drink from a dog bowl, etc.<\/li>\n<li>Public display \u2013 embarrassing public acts or displays<\/li>\n<li>Cum eating<\/li>\n<li>Ass worship \/ foot worship \u2013 some see this as a reward, others feel degraded by it<\/li>\n<li>Cuckolding \u2013 combination of verbal insults about manhood and degrading acts<\/li>\n<li>Objectification \u2013 treated as unimportant \u2013 being used as a foot stool, as an example<\/li>\n<li>Forced masturbation\/orgasm<\/li>\n<li>Enemas<\/li>\n<li>Spanking \u2013 yes, for some getting a simple spanking is humiliating<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>As you can see from this non-exhaustive list, erotic humiliation is a very diverse and personalized form of play. Humiliation can push buttons psychologically that send a sub deeper into subspace or send them reeling in raw emotion, so know your sub well, make sure safe words are in place and pay very close attention to your subs reactions to everything you hurl at them.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>First of all, there is a big difference in erotic humiliation and ordinary humiliation. In BDSM we use erotic humiliation to press a subs buttons and the end effect is to make them feel naughty and aroused. Calling someone, fat, stupid, old, etc, is usually not part of erotic humiliation and won\u2019t elicit the desired [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[23,11],"tags":[22,26,24,29,38],"class_list":["post-152","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-faq","category-sessions","tag-advice","tag-cuckold","tag-faq","tag-feminization","tag-humiliation"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/152","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=152"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"http:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/152\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":222,"href":"http:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/152\/revisions\/222"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=152"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=152"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=152"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}