{"id":1202,"date":"2018-04-22T21:19:11","date_gmt":"2018-04-23T01:19:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/?p=1202"},"modified":"2018-04-25T22:06:49","modified_gmt":"2018-04-26T02:06:49","slug":"faq-28-how-do-i-prepare-for-a-bdsm-femdom-session","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/faq-28-how-do-i-prepare-for-a-bdsm-femdom-session\/","title":{"rendered":"FAQ #28 &#8211; How do I prepare for a BDSM FemDom session?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-1203\" src=\"http:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/IMG_0918_e-1024x631.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"483\" height=\"298\" hspace=\"20\" srcset=\"http:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/IMG_0918_e-1024x631.jpg 1024w, http:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/IMG_0918_e-300x185.jpg 300w, http:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/IMG_0918_e-768x473.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 483px) 100vw, 483px\" \/>Subs often ask Me if there is anything in particular they should do to prepare for a session.\u00a0 Usually their mind is wrapped around their genitals and thoughts of edging, looking at photos, etc. are in the forefront, but there is a practical side to preparing for sessions too.\u00a0 Subs get excited and sometimes forget the common sense practicalities of preparation.\u00a0 Below are some pointers for making sure your session goes well.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Hydrate well prior to your session.\u00a0 When things go wrong physically in a session (lightheadedness, nausea, tiredness, etc.) it is usually from dehydration.\u00a0 This is the number one cause of fainting in session.\u00a0 If you are having a particularly heavy session or a session that lasts 90 minutes or more, take a bottle of water or a sports drink with you in session and don&#8217;t be shy to ask for a swallow.<\/li>\n<li>Eat normally.\u00a0 I know pre-session jitters can lead to an adrenaline rush that can cause you to lose your appetite prior to a session but failing to eat can cause the same nasty issues listed above.\u00a0 Even if you aren&#8217;t hungry try to at least eat a light meal prior to your session.\u00a0 Low blood sugar due to a lack of food can really be a buzz kill in session.<\/li>\n<li>Practice proper hygiene.\u00a0 This should go without saying but be sure you arrive clean and fresh.\u00a0 If you are coming from work or a flight and feel sweaty, ask to take a quick shower.\u00a0 If you are odiferous your Domme won&#8217;t want to get too close.\u00a0 If you will be engaging in anal play, give yourself an enema approximately\u00a02 hours prior if at all possible.\u00a0 I know this will be TMI for some, but all subs should clean in that area by inserting a soapy finger in the shower until it comes back clean.\u00a0 There is nothing worse than spanking a sub and when you turn him over your knee he smells like ass.\u00a0 Take this advice.\u00a0 Your Mistress will appreciate it.<\/li>\n<li>No cologne, please.\u00a0 I know you think your cologne smells sexy and manly &#8211; and it may, but it&#8217;s not appropriate to wear it in session. Particularly strong scents have given Me a headache or caused Me to sneeze.\u00a0 \u00a0There is also the issue of transference.\u00a0 Strong scents can transfer on to Us and We end up smelling like you.\u00a0 A busy Domme can go home smelling like a department store fragrance counter.\u00a0 I don&#8217;t wear any perfume in session for these exact reasons.\u00a0 Please reciprocate.<\/li>\n<li>Manscape if possible.\u00a0 I know this is not an option for everyone, but even trimming can be a help.\u00a0 Having to navigate around a full bush of hair to perform CBT can be awkward and actually hurt you in a not so good way.\u00a0 Trim the shrubbery if you can.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>In addition to these points, follow any specific instructions your Mistress has, including being chaste, preforming edging exercises or whatever She desires.\u00a0 We want to have a good time just like you do, so do yourself a favor and prepare accordingly.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Subs often ask Me if there is anything in particular they should do to prepare for a session.\u00a0 Usually their mind is wrapped around their genitals and thoughts of edging, looking at photos, etc. are in the forefront, but there is a practical side to preparing for sessions too.\u00a0 Subs get excited and sometimes forget [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[43,23,21,11],"tags":[22,44,24,17],"class_list":["post-1202","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-education","category-faq","category-miscellaneous-musings","category-sessions","tag-advice","tag-education","tag-faq","tag-sessions"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1202","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1202"}],"version-history":[{"count":9,"href":"http:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1202\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1283,"href":"http:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1202\/revisions\/1283"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1202"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1202"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1202"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}