{"id":1146,"date":"2018-02-14T10:04:08","date_gmt":"2018-02-14T15:04:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/?p=1146"},"modified":"2018-02-05T20:17:47","modified_gmt":"2018-02-06T01:17:47","slug":"faq-26-may-i-take-you-to-dinner","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/faq-26-may-i-take-you-to-dinner\/","title":{"rendered":"FAQ #26 &#8211; May I take you to dinner?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-1147\" src=\"https:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/DSC_3276_1_smaller.jpg-683x1024.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"392\" height=\"587\" hspace=\"20\/\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/DSC_3276_1_smaller.jpg-683x1024.jpeg 683w, https:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/DSC_3276_1_smaller.jpg-200x300.jpeg 200w, https:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/DSC_3276_1_smaller.jpg-768x1151.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/DSC_3276_1_smaller.jpg.jpeg 2002w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 392px) 100vw, 392px\" \/>Yes, you may!\u00a0 Sometimes prospective subs want a face to face meeting prior to sessioning.\u00a0 I understand that.\u00a0 It prevents you scheduling a session with someone that turns out to look nothing like their photos.\u00a0 It can help you establish if you have chemistry and are compatible.\u00a0 It can also help a new sub get his nerve up to actually serve in session.<\/p>\n<p>Established subs can also want to spend time with their Mistress outside of the Dungeon.\u00a0 I understand that too and often the feeling is mutual.\u00a0 Some of you are very interesting characters . . .<\/p>\n<p>The tribute for such outings are as follows:<\/p>\n<p>$100 &#8211; Cafe date &#8211; 30 minutes +\/-\u00a0 This might entail coffee or a meet for a drink.<\/p>\n<p>$150 &#8211; Dinner &#8211; 1 hour +\u00a0 A more leisurely affair with time to get to know each other, decompress after a session, etc.<\/p>\n<p>Overnight sessions usually include dinner.<\/p>\n<p>Shopping adventures are also possible and run anywhere from $100 to $150 per hour depending on time reserved and what items are purchased.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Yes, you may!\u00a0 Sometimes prospective subs want a face to face meeting prior to sessioning.\u00a0 I understand that.\u00a0 It prevents [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[43,23,21],"tags":[22,24],"class_list":["post-1146","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-education","category-faq","category-miscellaneous-musings","tag-advice","tag-faq"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1146","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1146"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1146\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1150,"href":"https:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1146\/revisions\/1150"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1146"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1146"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mistressayn.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1146"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}